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confidence question? help?

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  1. char393
    Member

    okay so honestly im not confident. i think i'm fat, and extremely ugly! i look in the mirror and just point out my flaws! hence my shock when he (http://s955.photobucket.com/albums/ae35/charlottex0x/?action=view&current=timmy2.jpg) wanted to date me (we're together now) but anyway once he called me beautiful so i was like "ha! what a joke" and he goes "you need to get more confident"

    but honestly, am i fat? am i ugly?

    front:
    http://s955.photobucket.com/albums/ae35/charlottex0x/?action=view&current=Photo223.jpg

    side:

    http://s955.photobucket.com/albums/ae35/charlottex0x/?action=view&current=Photo224.jpg

    shoes i wore (i love them)

    and this is me:

    http://s955.photobucket.com/albums/ae35/charlottex0x/?action=view&current=Photo225.jpg

    http://s955.photobucket.com/albums/ae35/charlottex0x/?action=view&current=Photo126.jpg
    http://s955.photobucket.com/albums/ae35/charlottex0x/?action=view&current=Photo175-1.jpg

    and you can be honest

    (according to a heigh weight chart in healthy and a tad underweight but i don't feel that way)

    i'm 5'9 and weigh about 140 pounds (some is muscle though)

    Posted 2 years ago #

  2. r-ytpe
    Member

    Best Answer

    Do you feel good about you, because that is all that matters. If you feel beautiful about yourself, then others will see this. That guy that called you names is just a prick simply trying to bring you down. People often make fun of others to feel better about their own insecurities(misery loves company), You have to remember that not everyone in life will like you, but as long as you feel good about the person you are, it doesn't matter. Their opinions don't shape who you are, you project who you are to the world and if you project confidence and self worth, other confident reassured individuals will see that in you, and then you exterior won't even matter because it's the inside that reveals who you really are, that matters most. Those are the opinions you should take to heart, not some d-bag that has to put others down to feel better about himself. So cheer, think positive and remember to not allow people to make you feel bad about this kinds of things, you are beautiful not because of your cloths,shoes,etc, you're beautiful because you are uniquely you.

    Posted 2 years ago #

  3. ttlybookworm97
    Member

    You're not fat or ugly! In fact you're actually pretty! have more confidence, although you should know that looks aren't everything ;)

    Posted 2 years ago #

  4. Cara ;]
    Member

    Your not fat! You have a pretty face! So stop worrying =)

    Posted 2 years ago #

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