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i hate being a red head!?

(14 posts)

  1. Amberly
    Member

    Everyone always tells me how much they love it but i reallly dont like it. Ive dyed it diffrent colors. My daughter has my red hair and i dont think it looks bad on her at all. I just dont like it on myself. I hate it when people are always like "your hair is so pretty, i always wanted to have red hair". If they wouldnt say it so much it would be fine. I know there just giving me a compliment but it gets reallly old after a while. I really dont like how theres so many fake redheads eaither. Because i have red hair, guys hit on me all the time because they want sex but i dont sleep with them. It makes me think that since people dye their hair red that they just want sex or something.
    How can i make myself like redhair? I know its going to be on me forever..I just dont know how to accept peoples compliments and quit being so ashammed of having red hair.

    this is something thats bothered me my whole life.

    Posted 2 years ago #

  2. loulou
    Member

    Best Answer

    I dyed my hair red...doesn't mean I want sex :o think thats a bit harsh! I don't think people hit on me more with red hair either just the same amount!

    You just need to accept it as it's part of you, we all have things we hate about ourselfs and can't see it how others do, the fact your daughter has the same red hair and you think she looks beauitiful with it just shows that you can't see yourself the way everyone else does.
    Just like someone else hating there big bottom or being tall many other people find these things a postive thing and everyone just has to learn to love themselfs coz its not something we can change :)
    You need to set a good example to your daughter, if she notices your hangups about your hair she will think she has something to hate about her hair too and you really don't want that :)

    Posted 2 years ago #

  3. Spriggs
    Member

    just accept it and say thank you you can die your hair change you hairstyle but eventualy it will catch up to you no matter and it will bother you like it is right now. just accept it and say thank you im sure it doesnt look bad.

    Posted 2 years ago #

  4. Ashley
    Member

    If you hate it that much, then just dye your hair.

    To be honest, I don't see why other fake redheads would bother you. I don't get upset when I see a fake blonde strolling around.
    And it's not like only women who dye their hair red get hit on by sleazy guys who only want sex. I mean, have you considered that perhaps you are simply going to the wrong places to get/when you are hit on? I've dyed my hair red in the past, and wasn't treated like a slut. And when I dyed my hair, I wasn't after all the boys for a good time in their backseat.

    If you can't just accept your hair as-is and love it, then don't bother being this upset over it and dye it another colour that will be easy to keep up. Like.. a reddish brown perhaps. You can't control what others will say, and you can't control what others choose to do.

    Posted 2 years ago #

  5. vera_rocks579
    Member

    im a red head and guys hit on me cuz i look hott with red hair. thats all. i thnk being a red head is freakin awesome!!!! red hair is so beautiful.

    Posted 2 years ago #

  6. animal lover ♥♥
    Member

    You are so lucky to have red hair.
    I know that's not want you want to hear, but it's true.
    God made you beautiful.
    You need to stop worrying about your outer beauty, and start focusing on inner beauty.

    Posted 2 years ago #

  7. cool guy :D
    Member

    omg i love red head girls :)

    and even though can see youre tired of hearing that..

    ill tell you that's hot and you shouldn't want to change that

    Posted 2 years ago #

  8. loulou
    Member

    I dyed my hair red...doesn't mean I want sex :o think thats a bit harsh! I don't think people hit on me more with red hair either just the same amount!

    You just need to accept it as it's part of you, we all have things we hate about ourselfs and can't see it how others do, the fact your daughter has the same red hair and you think she looks beauitiful with it just shows that you can't see yourself the way everyone else does.
    Just like someone else hating there big bottom or being tall many other people find these things a postive thing and everyone just has to learn to love themselfs coz its not something we can change :)
    You need to set a good example to your daughter, if she notices your hangups about your hair she will think she has something to hate about her hair too and you really don't want that :)

    Posted 2 years ago #

  9. loulou
    Member

    I dyed my hair red...doesn't mean I want sex :o think thats a bit harsh! I don't think people hit on me more with red hair either just the same amount!

    You just need to accept it as it's part of you, we all have things we hate about ourselfs and can't see it how others do, the fact your daughter has the same red hair and you think she looks beauitiful with it just shows that you can't see yourself the way everyone else does.
    Just like someone else hating there big bottom or being tall many other people find these things a postive thing and everyone just has to learn to love themselfs coz its not something we can change :)
    You need to set a good example to your daughter, if she notices your hangups about your hair she will think she has something to hate about her hair too and you really don't want that :)

    Posted 2 years ago #

  10. loulou
    Member

    I dyed my hair red...doesn't mean I want sex :o think thats a bit harsh! I don't think people hit on me more with red hair either just the same amount!

    You just need to accept it as it's part of you, we all have things we hate about ourselfs and can't see it how others do, the fact your daughter has the same red hair and you think she looks beauitiful with it just shows that you can't see yourself the way everyone else does.
    Just like someone else hating there big bottom or being tall many other people find these things a postive thing and everyone just has to learn to love themselfs coz its not something we can change :)
    You need to set a good example to your daughter, if she notices your hangups about your hair she will think she has something to hate about her hair too and you really don't want that :)

    Posted 2 years ago #

  11. hello ,
    Member

    I ADORE red hair.
    I was born with dark brown hair.
    Looks like black though.
    I would love to have red hair
    ♥

    Posted 2 years ago #

  12. Carley
    Member

    maybe you could get highlights. or try different styles or up does. get a perm or something. or get straighten it. maybe you could go shopping and get different colored clothes that compliment your hair color. and accept peoples compliments because most people never get any and you have the privlidge of having beautiful hair that you naturally get compliments for. You should be thankful for the beautiful hair that God has given you along with all of the other gifts He has given you throughout your life so far and in the future. :)

    Posted 2 years ago #

  13. loulou
    Member

    I dyed my hair red...doesn't mean I want sex :o think thats a bit harsh! I don't think people hit on me more with red hair either just the same amount!

    You just need to accept it as it's part of you, we all have things we hate about ourselfs and can't see it how others do, the fact your daughter has the same red hair and you think she looks beauitiful with it just shows that you can't see yourself the way everyone else does.
    Just like someone else hating there big bottom or being tall many other people find these things a postive thing and everyone just has to learn to love themselfs coz its not something we can change :)
    You need to set a good example to your daughter, if she notices your hangups about your hair she will think she has something to hate about her hair too and you really don't want that :)

    Posted 2 years ago #

  14. loulou
    Member

    I dyed my hair red...doesn't mean I want sex :o think thats a bit harsh! I don't think people hit on me more with red hair either just the same amount!

    You just need to accept it as it's part of you, we all have things we hate about ourselfs and can't see it how others do, the fact your daughter has the same red hair and you think she looks beauitiful with it just shows that you can't see yourself the way everyone else does.
    Just like someone else hating there big bottom or being tall many other people find these things a postive thing and everyone just has to learn to love themselfs coz its not something we can change :)
    You need to set a good example to your daughter, if she notices your hangups about your hair she will think she has something to hate about her hair too and you really don't want that :)

    Posted 2 years ago #

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