Ok I am a college student. I would describe my personality as... (this are adjectives other people have described me as) - "timid, soft-spoken, reserved, chill, laid-back, quiet but when she does speak has something important to say, nice, sweet, doesn't talk enough, seems snobby"
I don't know why, but I just have always been a quiet person. over the years, i have become a lot more talkative in the past but it still isn't enough for some people and i don't seem interested enough in the conversations i am in i have been told.
however, i started drinking a while ago. when i drink, i become funny, happy, giggly, the center of attention, and everyone loves my personality when i am drunk. people the next day will tell me "i love you soooo much drunk." and "you are sooo adorable drunk." and i think the only reason i have a bunch of good friends now is because we really bonded when we were drunk together.
i feel i am terribly boring and not fun at all to be around when i am sober. i really dont know what to do about this.how can i improve my personality so i am more fun to be around when sober and so that i don't have to rely on alcohol? i feel like i am confident in all my abilities in terms of academics, dont criticize my looks too much, good at sports, etc. but my personality is so terrible when i am sober it's holding me back from a lot of things in life and i really don't know what to do.
how can i improve my sober personality??? any ideas what is wrong? do i lack confidence or something??? how is it possible to be so fun when drunk but so boring when sober????
